I was in church last week + heard the most amazing speech. I cannot remember it exactly but it went something like this.
"Everyone always thinks they have it totally figured out. Who they love, who they hate, what is important, what they want, what they need, and how the world works, and their relationship with god until...
the 'oh shit moment'
The moment when the plane is crashing or the cancer is happening that changes everything. "
I have been living my life this year as one big "oh shit" moment. Focusing truly on the things that are 100% important and living my life as if the plane is crashing down. It's meant some big changes in my friends, life, structure and time but I'd rather do it now then when I crash.